For Married Couples Here is what happens when you go to bed angry with your spouse
Never go to bed angry with your spouse is an age-long advice for newly-married couples. But why exactly shouldn't you?
Cast your mind back to when you were being taught to cross the road.
Surely one of the first things you were told was to always look left, look right and then look right and left again before dashing across the road to the other side.
Now,
the way a traffic instructor would be quick to teach you that simple
rule first, is the same way a marriage counsellor will ensure that one
of the first things you are taught is how to never go to bed without
resolving any issues with your partner.
For ages and generations, the rule has been kept intact and passed down from one generation to another.
But why do you have to force yourself to reach a resolution before you go to bed?
According to the Nature Communications Journal, going to bed angrily will ruin your sleep and get you all moody, and these negative effects will be long-term.
The
researchers, who used MRI scans to observe 73 male students over two
days show that it was harder to get rid of these memories over time.
Apparently
the brain stores negative memories during sleep and makes it a lot more
difficult to forget about them in the long-term.
So, basically if you go to sleep angry, there's a strong chance you'll wake up in the same mood.
According to Yunzhe Liu, leader of the research at Beijing Normal University, “In our opinion, yes, there is certain merit in this age-old advice,”
Speaking to Guardian UK, he continued, “We would suggest to first resolve argument before going to bed; don’t sleep on your anger.”
So,
for all couples who value their sleep, happiness and marriage, the best
thing to do is to stick to the old rule and resolve every argument
before going to bed.
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